Philip Clayton Jay III
Advocate, Leader, Community Servant, Loyal Friend and Beloved Family Man
Philip Clayton Jay III, of Fitzgerald, Georgia, passed away leaving behind a legacy defined by compassion, fearless advocacy, and deep-rooted love for both his family and his community. He dedicated his life to lifting others up—particularly those with developmental disabilities—and to challenging the status quo for the betterment of all.
A 5th generation graduate of Mercer University with degrees in Christianity and Psychology, Philip served his country honorably in Vietnam as a proud Marine before returning home to begin a lifetime of public service. As the Founding Executive Director of the Jessamine Place, he led an organization of over 125 employees and managed a budget exceeding $3 million—all in pursuit of a vision where people with disabilities were recognized for their contributions and gifts rather than their differences. His career in this area was sparked by a local initiation to form the Ben Hill Foundation for Special Children, whose original board appointed him as the Director. The objective was to raise funds to match a grant to establish and support the overall program, one of four in South Georgia. This initiative birthed Modern Industries, a community work-based project, which later morphed into The Jessamine Place. His reputation led to being named the President of CDAG (Center Directors Association of Georgia).
Throughout his career, Philip served on many state boards promoting and advocating for people with disabilities for their right to live work and contribute in their communities. His tireless efforts influenced progressive state and federal legislation, streamlined government systems through innovative policy, and helped establish national accreditation standards that continue to benefit Georgia and Ben Hill County today. He believed deeply in the inherent worth of every individual, teaching others to appreciate diversity rather than fear it.
Philip’s dedication extended far beyond his professional work. In Fitzgerald, he was a champion for community wellness and connection. He served as Chairman of the County Commission, Founder and President of the Wellness Council, and was a driving force behind initiatives such as Communities in Schools (CIS), Alzheimer’s support programs, the Committee on Child
Abuse, the Ben Hill Recycling Program, and what would become Fitzgerald-Ben Hill Family Connection.
He was a proud member of American Legion Post 99 and an active member of the Fitzgerald Rotary Club, where he served as President and Assistant District Governor. His service earned him the “Service Above Self” Award and recognition as a Will Watt Fellow. Among his many honors were the Ebony & Arts Award for Outstanding Contribution and the NAACP
Distinguished Humanitarian Award. He also served on the Regional Planning Board for Mental Health, Developmental Disabilities, and Addictive Diseases.
Because of his in-depth devotion to the community after retirement, Philip continued to be a visionary and worked diligently to assist in establishing an exhibit hall for African Art in Fitzgerald called the Colony Art Gallery. He served as the Chairman of the Art Museum board until his health failed.
While his public service was broad and impactful, Philip’s proudest role was as a father and grandfather. He delighted in his family and especially his grandchildren, often challenging them to think deeply with the question, “What did you do for the good of the world order today?”
He lived by enduring principles:
* That people can disagree without sacrificing their shared humanity.
* That individual differences are strengths to be celebrated.
* That the wisdom of elders should be honored and drawn upon.
* And that “to whom much has been given, much is expected.”
Philip was preceded in death by his father, Philip Clayton Jay Jr., and his mother, Rosa Lee Jay. He is survived by his son, Michael Jay, and wife Jennie, and grandchildren Liam and Lee; his daughter, Bessie Jay, and husband Daniel, and grandchildren Ellie and Ben; his sisters, Dr. Susan Jay and her husband Dr. John Lundgren, and Lydia Martin and her husband Father Hallock Martin; as well as many beloved nieces and nephews.
Philip Clayton Jay III lived a life of integrity, courage, and unwavering love. His work changed lives for the so-called marginalized people he supported as well as the people who work beside him. His example will continue to inspire all who knew him.
We invite all who knew and loved Philip to join us in a Celebration of Life on Saturday, August 9th at 1:00 PM at the Ben Hill County Courthouse.
A graveside interment will follow the service, with a reception afterward at the Jay Inn.
Your presence and shared memories will honor the legacy of a man who dedicated his life to service, inclusion, and community.
In lieu of flowers, the family kindly requests that donations be made to The Jessamine Place in memory of Philip Jay.
Please make checks payable to The Jessamine Place, and include “Donation for Philip Jay” on the For line.
Mailing Address:
The Jessamine Place
P.O. Box 436
Fitzgerald, GA 31750
Paulk Funeral Home, Fitzgerald, is in charge of arrangements.