BUXTON- Eddie A. Mains Jr., age 72, passed away on March 25, 2026, doing what he loved to do- being on his property and working in the woods.
He was born in Westbrook on Feb. 16, 1954, a son of the late Eddie Sr. and Mavis (Steeves) Estabrook.
He worked at S.D. Warren for a time and then lobstering out on Casco Bay (his favorite job) followed by a day of farming. He also worked for Trico Mechanical flying all over the country doing paper mill shutdowns (annual maintenance or emergency repairs).
Eddie will forever be remembered for the enjoyment he of had being in the outdoors, whether it be hunting, trapping, tuna fishing, or just relaxing. He also enjoyed square dancing, traveling, and most importantly- being with his loving family.
He lived to help others. One day he was asked “how come every time your phone rings, you head out to help someone?” He said “that’s what I’m here for.”
He loved unconditionally and was very proud of his sons. When talking, he said “my boys.”
He worshiped and served at the Grace Bible Church in Gorham. The family is very comforted by the fact he accepted Jesus as his Savior years ago and know that they will see him again. His granddaughter Izabel said “When we get to Heaven, all the trees will be cut down.”
Just look inside of heavens gates
A new mountain rose so grand
a memorial from the cries of us
at the passing of this man
The kind of man that Jesus loved
to watch his heart pour out
on every soul that needed help
or just to lift us up,
A monument you cannot see
without eyes made with love
for he had stored his treasure there
that begged us all to come
come and see eternal things
that truly make a man
not in words or flashy speech
but how he walked the land.
I can't believe he's gone ahead
oh eternity does shine,
Eddie's gone to stoke its flame
Though we wish it wasn’t time
Poem by Ed OBrion
Eddie is predeceased by his parents; and siblings- Dana Mains and Patty Sutherland.
He is survived by his beloved wife of 54 wonderful years- Kathleen (Brown) Mains; his children- Michael Mains and his wife Kristina, Adam Mains and his wife Shannon, and Andrew Mains and his wife Heather, and the many other “adopted” children he took under his wing; grandchildren- Kyle, Denali, Adam Jr. “AJ”, Mary, Izabel, Leif, Addison, and Piper; his step mother- Marion Mains, step aunt Evelyn Austin; siblings- Dale Mains and Tammy Fardon; many cousins, nieces and nephews, and dear friends.
A celebration of Eddie’s life will be held on April 11, 2026, at 1:00 PM,
The Grace Bible Church of Gorham
74 Deering Rd. Gorham Maine 04038
In lieu of sending flowers contributions can be sent to:
The Grace Bible Church of Gorham PO Box 698 Gorham Me 04038
Anyone wanting to share stories or pictures with the family can email them to:
[email protected]
Arrangements have been entrusted to Chad E. Poitras Cremation and Funeral Service, Buxton, www.mainefuneral.com