Thomas J. Cardwell, 67, a devoted family man, respected colleague, and a proud veteran died Sunday, March 22nd in St. Vincent Hospital leaving a legacy of hard work, kindness, and quiet strength. He leaves his children Apryl Cardwell and her fiancé, Luis Zayas, Cody Cardwell, Zachary Cardwell all of Millbury, Seth Cardwell of Denver, CO, and Ethan Cardwell and his wife, Cecilia of British Columbia; his son-in-law, Matthew Brown of Millbury; his siblings, Dennis and Mary Cardwell of Leominster, Wayne Cardwell of Worcester, Karen Murray of Port Charlotte, FL, Sherrie and Franco Tarquinio of Hubbardston, Nicole Parsons of Worcester, Richard Hourihan of Hudson, Linda and George Cimochowski of Charlton, Water Cimochowski and Way Cimochowski both of Oxford; brother-in-law, James Grimshaw; three grandchildren, Sienna and Kendra Zayas and Freya Cardwell; and many nieces, nephews and extended family. He was predeceased by a daughter, Samantha Brown; a son, Todd Cardwell; his foster parents, Walter and Lillian Cimochowski; and his siblings, Donna Grimshaw, James Cardwell, and Ricky Madore.
He was born in Alexandria Bay, New York, the son of the late Thomas Cardwell and Diane (Gonyea) Hourihan. A graduate of Oxford High School, Thomas went on to server his country honorably as a member of the United States Navy. Following his military service, he began his civilian career with Raytheon, where he worked until 1985. He then began a long and dedicated career with the United States Postal Service, working as an electronic technician at the Shrewsbury Distribution Plant for 44 years. Thomas was known for his strong work ethic and unwavering reliability – whenever something needed to be done, he was always the first to step forward. In April of 2025, he retired, earning recognition for his excellent service. He was well known and deeply respected by both his coworkers and supervisors.
Outside of work, Thomas enjoyed the simple pleasures of life. He loved cookouts and small gatherings at home, where he could spend time with family and close friends. He could often be found sharing laughs with friends at the ((, where his sense of humor and love of telling jokes make him a favorite among those who knew him. He had a passion for music and cherished attending concerts, including unforgettable shows by Pearl Jam and AC/DC, as well as a memorable road trip to Ohio for a three-day concert experience.
A devoted sports fan, Thomas especially loved attending Bruins games. He was incredibly intelligent and had a natural curiosity, always tinkering and figuring out how things worked.
Above all, Thomas was selfless and kindhearted. He was a man who always put his family first, ensuring they had everything they needed, and would give the shirt off his back to help someone in need.
Thomas was also a cancer survivor, having faced both colon and skin cancer with resilience and determination. He never allowed his diagnosis to define him, instead persevering with strength and courage.
He will be remembered for his generosity, humor, dedication and the love he gave so freely to those around him. His presence will be deeply missed by all who had the privilege of knowing him.
Calling hours are Tuesday, March 31st from 5:00 until 7:00 p.m. in O’CONNOR BROTHERS FUNERAL HOME, 592 Park Avenue. Burial will be held at a later date in Massachusetts Veteran’s Memorial Cemetery, 111 Glenallen Street, Winchendon. In lieu of flowers memorial contributions may be made to the Alzhemier’s Association, 320 Nevada Street, Suite 201, Newton, MA 02460.