| CONDOLENCES (GuestBook) |
| CONDOLENCES (GuestBook) |
12/17/2018 Cathy McDonagh
Gales Ferry, CT, USA
Jeff was part of our family for so long, I hardly remember a time without him. It will never be the same. His big smile brightened up the whole room. And I'm going to miss his cooking SO MUCH! There are just no words to describe the sorrow I feel over his loss, for his family and for everyone who knew and loved him.
12/18/2018 Douglas Weeks
Malden, Ma, Usa
To Pat and all the family, Jeff was an automatic member of my family from way back, and I remember doing an inpired mimick Of a drum solo in my room one day at maybe 12 years old. We so carried away the the bed we were sitting on collapsed. We laughed for days about it, but my mom was not pleased. Next day Jeff was there and with a few screws and some glue we managed to fix it good as new. Just one of many catalog memories I had with him. He will be missed like my brother he truly was. We had lunch about a month ago and he said he was tired and thinking of switching jobs. A week ago on the phone he was planning on him and Pat attending my birthday party I will miss him, and a deep hole has formed filled by only God. May he Rest In Peace. I
12/18/2018 Rick Stannard
Colchester, Select Region, US
This one hit me hard. It was just a few weeks ago we were all together in New Jersey celebrating John C.'s birthday and Jeff was there, smiling and laughing as usual, plus playing bass and singing. I am so grateful to have had that last jam and will really miss his smile, wit and tremendous musicianship. RIP Jeff.
12/19/2018 William (Fuzz) Wenda
Chino Hills, CA, USA
Jeff had a nice smile and was fun to be around.
12/20/2018 Cathy O’Neill
Brewster, MA, United States
To Jeff’s family and friends...I am so very sorry for your loss. I did not know Jeff well, but I do remember him from Falmouth High School and he always had a smile on his face and a friendly hello to everyone. You could tell he was special...thinking of Jeff and those close to him. Sending prayers.
12/20/2018 Angela Haynes
Lockport, NY, USA
My prayers are with the Alexander Family as you celebrate the life of your Beloved Husband,Father,Brother,Uncle and Friend. We may not understand God's Timing but Be Blessed in knowing that he is always in control. Peace and Blessings!!!!!
12/20/2018 Bryce and Irene Barlow
El cajon, CA, United states
We were so sad to learn that Jeff passed away at such a young age. Jeff had a wonderful smile and he was one of those few people that you immediately fell in love with. We were thrilled when Patty and Jeff moved to Southern California, it was an awesome opportunity for us to get to know Jeff. He would always make his delicious nachos and margaritas. And his smile was like no other. He will surely be missed. To Patty and the boys, we are thinking about you and pray that you find peace in knowing that Jeff was loved by so many and is in heaven now. Love. Irene and Bryce Barlow
12/21/2018 Susan Hanley
Falmouth, MA, USA
Dear Patty and Family, I am so sorry to learn of Jeff's passing. Though we have not seen each other since high school, every time I hear Jeff mentioned in conversation it always brings a smile to my face. He was kind, caring, talented and fun! Though I was class of '79, I attended the class of '77 reunion recently with my friend Jayne only to find out that on the ride home, with Dave and Clayton, that you and Jeff were also in attendance. I was so bummed that I did not get a chance to say hello. Jeff was one of the best and one we will always remember. My heart goes out to you and your family.
12/28/2018 Joe Olenick
Falmouth, MA, United States
Patricia, I'm sorry for your loss. Jeff was a great man and friend. Keep all the memories close to you and he will always be with you. Joe Olenick
1/15/2019 Marissa
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Dear Patricia and family, I'm so sorry for your loss. I worked with Jeff for a brief time in has last company. He was always kind and had a jovial smile that lit up the room. He often spoke highly about you and his sons. I know the grill he bought recently for tailgating will be a cherished item with your family. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. May you find strength and comfort with your friends, family, and loved ones. Jeff will always be remembered for his tender and warm generosity.
2/15/2019 Marilee Fields
Clinton, MA,
Dear Patricia and family, I'm so sorry for your loss. I only found out about Jeff's passing last night by our previous co-workers. I sat next to Jeff at Corindus. I remember when I started, he was the first person who was nice to me and we became friends. On Fridays at work, he would always keep an eye on me when I decided to indulge in bagel day. I can still here him say, "Now Marilee, I thought you said you weren't going to have a bagel" and I would tell him I was just going to half. He kept me honest! He always talked to me about his family, the boys and showed me all of the pictures from the beach and trips to the Cape. I was very shocked to hear of his passing as we always kept in touch. I had texted him in January about the Patriots going to another Superbowl, and thought it was strange that I never got a return text. Every Friday, I would tell him I was going to just relax and catch up on rest over the weekend. He would amaze me with all of his plans for the weekend, telling me about the movie he was going to, or that he was going to drive down to the Cape for the weekend or go for a long walk. I couldn't believe how much energy he had! He was one of the most wonderful people I ever had the opportunity to meet and I am so glad I got to spend the time I had with him, he touched a lot of lives and he will be missed.