2/6/2010 Harry Mertin
Chilliwack, BC, Canada
Dear Brian Our family's thoughts are with you as you deal with that which no parent is wired to be able to deal with. Brian, we have met several times over business, but my poignant memories of meeting you are based not on hockey, but on our chats about life, family and children, especially the time my daughter, Saram joined me for dinner with you. Our personal exchange about family meant a lot to me, but that meaning grew exponetially upon learning that you, as a Dad, have suffered such a tragedy. Your dedication and strength of conviction to family all came back to me last night when I learned of the accident. May that powerful, wonderful, pure, undiluted strength help you and your family at this difficult time, Brian. With Great Respect and Greater Sadness Harry Mertin

2/6/2010 Chilliwack Bruins
Chilliwack , BC, Canada
The entire Chilliwack Bruins organization's thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time.

2/6/2010 Dean R. Czerwonka
Canton, MA, United States
I can remember back in the day when Brendan and I use to play baseball and hockey together for the town of canton I am so upset to hear you are gone, but I know you are with God now. Everyone at Xaverian truly loved you and I can remember looking up to you as a freshmen. You have always been a great friend and loved seeing you every year at XLI. I miss you man. I will see you soon. To the burke family you have my dearest condolences and I wish all of you my deepest sympathy and love. Dean Czerwonka

2/6/2010 Darryl Porter
Chilliwack, BC, Canada
Our thought are with the entire Burke Family at this difficult time. All our love and regards Darryl and Anneli

2/6/2010 S.Marguerite Taylor
Amherst, Nova Scotia, Canada
To your family I send prayers.Always remember the "good" bits. Blessings;S.Marguerite Taylor

2/6/2010 Joanie Giblin McCabe
Weston, MA, USA
Our deepest condolences to you all on the loss of Brendan. Our nephew,Patrick, was one of Brendan's lucky roommates and friends at Miami, and I know how deeply he'll be missed. We have always heard so many wonderful and funny stories about what a special guy Brendan was, and we know that he'll continue to inspire all of his family & friends every day to be better people. We will keep you all in our prayers. God bless--Joanie (Giblin) & Jim McCabe

2/7/2010 Orest Podubinski
Toronto, Ontario, Canada
To the Burke family, We will keep Brendan in our thoughts and prayers. It is hard to recover after a loss of a family member, but your family will get through the loss. What I am trying to say is that you have all the support from everybody. I will keep you in my thoughts.

2/7/2010 Helene Crawford
N.Vancouver, BC, Canada
My deepest heartfelt condolences to the Burke Family, my thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time, a brave soul taken much to young...

2/7/2010 Marie N Bimmler
Assonet, Massachusetts, USA
Brendan, Your time on earth was not long enough but enough to have touched so many people. Your spirit will always be with us. I know you are in heaven and will contine to watch all of us. Brendan, we miss you so much. Love, Marie Bimmler

2/7/2010 Steve Simmons
Thornhill, Ontario, Canada
Brian. My thoughts are prayers are with you and your family at this very difficult time.

2/7/2010 yvonne murphy
manhattan beach, ca, usa
kerry, brian, molly, katie, patrick and family.....I am so sorry for the overwhelming loss of your precious brendan. praying for you always.........

2/7/2010 Robin Monteith
St. Marys, Ontario, Canada
I wish to express my condolences to the Burke family in your time of loss. I did not know Brendan, but became familiar to him and his story this past Fall. I admired his courage and the understanding of his family. My thoughts and prayers are with you.

2/7/2010 Jeff Parker
Alexandria, Virginia, USA
Dear Burke Family: The news of Brendan's passing has hit me very hard. I cannot imagine how you folks are feeling right now. May you find peace and comfort in your good memories of Brendan. I knew of him through recent news reports. I have admired his courage immensely. I am a die hard Red Wings fan and know that all of Hockey is behind you right now. My deepest sympathies, Jeffrey Parker

2/7/2010 Reggie Brockway
Hamilton, Ontario, Canada
Time can never be turn back ! Time is to live for today! Your name will live on forever. Rest in peace Brendan Burke.

2/7/2010 trevor whiffen
toronto, ontario, canada
We are so sorry for your loss. The whole hockey community is sharing in your sorrow. We will keep your family in our thoughts and prayers. Trevor Whiffen London Knights Hockey Club

2/7/2010 Jamie & Sandy Byers
Garden City, MI, U.S.
Our thoughts & prayers are with you and your family at this most difficult time. May God give you peace.

2/7/2010 Michael
Cincinnati, Ohio, USA
Your loved one's message and courage touched my life and evidently many others. His spirit will live on. May God comfort you in this time of great need and sorrow. I pray that soon you will all smile again.

2/7/2010 L.J. Mitchell
New York, NY, United States
My deepest condolences to the Burke Family. Brendan was an inspiration to me and to my friends, as is Mr. Burke. You are in my thoughts and prayers.

2/7/2010 TJ Moffatt
Norval, ON, CANADA
My condolences on your loss

2/7/2010 Karen Johnson
Canton, MA, USA
My most heart felt condolences for the tragic and devastating loss of your precious son Brendan. Every time I saw Brendan coming up the stairs to visit next door he would smile, hold the door, joke around and just radiate the most kind and friendly attitude towards someone he barely knew. The laughter and love that I would hear in the hallway coming from your place Brian made me so happy for you. I miss you and Patrick since you moved and wish we could go back a year or two to me hearing you and the kids over there laughing and just being so happy together. With everything going on in the world today, you have the right perspective and it shows in your family. You and Brendan's mom Kerry must have given an awful lot of love and ongoing support over the past 21 years to have such a truly great child. As the mom of a hockey boy I know the time and dedication you both had to put in to support him. These are the things that help make such a good character and strong family commitment. I hope my son turns out as wonderful as Brenan when he's a young man of 21 and can not even imagine the pain you are in. We miss you and hope you continue to gain strength and support from the wonderful memories you have of Brendan and the strong family around you. Our thoughts are with you always.

2/7/2010 Jacob Wang
San Francisco, California, USA
Brendan: After reading the ESPN.com story about you written by John Buccigross, I had hoped to get in touch with you to talk about the process that led to you coming out, but that story was vague about your whereabouts. May you rest in peace.

2/7/2010 Margie and Meghan Bernotas
Stoughton, MA, USA
Eddie, Elaine, and Kerry, We are so sorry for your loss. We are keeping you in our hearts, thoughts, and prayers. Please let us know if there is anything we can do. Love, Margie and Meghan

2/7/2010 Brandon Blackford
San Jose, CA, United States
Burkie, I did not know you nearly as much as I wish that I did. From messing around at Okanagan Hockey Camp, to grabbing some good food and seeing the Dark Knight in Boston, you were one of the best kids that I have ever known. You could completely change the attitude of a room just by being in it. I wish that the Buffs had played Miami so I would have had a good excuse to get out there. You were such an amazing person and the whole world is at a loss without you. To the Burke and Reedy Families: I am deeply saddened by your losses but am comforted by the fact that they are in a better place in Heaven. While time can only heal this, know that they are looking down on you with smiling faces because you raised two fantastic people, they will both be deeply missed, I wish I could be there for the service.

2/7/2010 Dan
Toronto, Ontario, Canada
Brian i can not begin to feel what u are feeling today i just lost my grandparents 2 years ago and im still recovering my thoughts and wishes got to the Burke Family and Brendan aswell RIP im deeply sorry thank u GO LEAFS GO

2/7/2010 Larry Corrigan
Port Perry, ON, Canada
In this of darkness we are comforted by our Faith, the presence of loved ones and prayers of people we have not met. Your family's intentions were placed on the Eucharistic Altar in Mount St. Joseph Chapel in Peterboro ON by the Sisters of St. Joseph My Brendan's soul and all the souls of the faithfully departed RIP

2/7/2010 Melinda McLaughlin
Canton, MA,
To the family and friends of Brendan: What a great, great kid, great person. He always had a smile for everyone and was someone I always looked forward to seeing. The kind of person that could lift you up in your darkest hour. May we all carry on his spirit by doing the same for others. My deepest sympathy. The thoughts and prayers of all of us are with you.

2/7/2010 Kathryn Werner
Oxford, Ohio, USA
Brendan will be missed very, very much here in Oxford. He was a strong voice on campus. Everyone knows Brendan was one of the most genuine and caring individuals they could come across. I pass on my love and respect to the family. You already know this, but you're son was incredible. I will always remember him and the impact he has had on my life.

2/7/2010 Elizabeth Wagner
Oxford , Ohio, U.S.A
Burke Family, I am a student at Miami and was your sons neighbor at school. I moved in next store in August. He was the first to welcome us to the neighborhood. I only had the pleasure of knowing him for a very short time. I wish I could have got to know him a little better than I did. But in that short time I got to see the sweet person that he was. I recently lost my dad in December and shortly after Brendan let me know that he was there for me if I needed to talk or anything at all, even though we were not very close... I thought that said a lot about his character. He had such a kind heart and was a man of truth. Although I didn't know him as well as many others he left a legacy to me and many others of staying true to himself no matter who may have challenged him. I know there are never any words that anyone can say that can make your loss any easier on you. But seeing how many lives he touched alone can give you a sense of comfort, I know it has helped me in these past couple months. Please know that your family has so many people praying and thinking about them. In these next couple months cling to each other. There is nothing like family. I will continue to keep you in my prayers everyday. I hope you find comfort in knowing what an outstanding man your son was. I am so sorry for your loss. Brendan is unforgettable. " The Lord is close to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit"- Psalms 34:18 -Elizabeth Wagner

2/7/2010 Mike and Myrna Johnston
Portland, OR, USA
Brian and Jen our thoughts and prayers go out to you at this difficult time. May the support of your friends give you strength.

2/7/2010 Rick Romain
Toronto, Ontario, Canada
Brian and Family; My thoughts and prayers go out to all of you over the loss of Brandon. He was an extremely brave young man who let it be known who he was. For that he was admired, loved and truly respected. His father Brian showed his deep love and affection for his son publicly and this alone showed what a true loving family that they are. Brendan may be gone but he has left his mark on this world in a very positive way. May he rest in peace and may all of you find the strength to carry on. Toronto respects and loves you all. God bless all of you. I do not know any of you but your pain is felt by all at this most difficult time

2/7/2010 Maggie Elwood
Oxford, Ohio, United States
This loss is devastating to the Miami community. Brendan was such an amazing student and touched so many lives. I am saddened that I never got the chance to personally talk with him, but he was one of those guys that everyone knew of and spoke highly of and he will be greatly missed.

2/7/2010 Ann Marie & Jim Long
Conception Bay South, Newfoundland & Labrador, Canada
To the Burke Family You are in our thoughts and prayers, may God guide through this difficult time. God Bless

2/7/2010 Louise Blanchet
Ingleside, Ontario, Canada
To all who knew and loved Brendan we send our sincerest condolences. Always remember the love you shared and retain the love that will live in all of you forever, in his memory. I lost a brother 7 1/2 years ago and although the pain has subsided the love is still strong. Louise, Dan, Sophie and Gabrièle Blanchet Brian and Jennifer, I met you at my sister Hélène Crawford's 40th birthday party in Vancouver 8 yrs. ago. Our prayers are with you!

2/7/2010 Alfred
Thousand Oaks, California, United States
Dear Burke family: Thank you for Brendan who has had such a positive impact on so many people around the world. Thank you for having raised such a courageous and loving young man. Also thank you for having shown him that he is always loved by those around him. Thank you for showing the world what love truly means. May you find solace and comfort that Brendan has lived fully and lived a beautiful life. He has been and will be an inspiration for many many people. Very Sincerely, Alfred L.

2/7/2010 Andrew Consilvio
Hanover, MA, USA
Though I didn't keep in touch with him as much as I wished I had, Brendan was one of the nicest people I had the pleasure of knowing during our four years of high school. My deepest and greatest condolences go out to Brendan and his family. You will be missed greatly Brendan.

2/7/2010 Jane O'Neil Gomes
Littleton, Ma, USA
Dear Kerry, You and all your family are in our thoughts and prayers at this most sorrowful time. We hope you will find peace and comfort through the love and embrace of family friends and faith. Love Jane and Al

2/7/2010 CLANCY
, CT,
Our deepest sympathies to the Burke family. You are all in our thoughts and prayers at this most sorrowful time. The Clancy Family (SMS, Simsbury,CT)

2/7/2010 Gary Hicks
East Lansing, MI, United States
Although I did not know Brendan, he struck me as an extraordinarily courageous and confident young man. My sincere condolences to his family and friends for their loss.

2/7/2010 Nina Thomas
Ponte Vedra Beach, FL, USA
Please know that our thoughts and prayers are with the entire Burke family.

2/7/2010 J Harleen Acton
Kingston, Ontario, Canada
Burke Family: My prayers and thoughts are with all of you at this very difficult time. May God's peace be with you all now and forever. Sincerely, J. Harleen Acton

2/7/2010 Jeff and Ingrid Polkinghorne
Bridgewater, NJ, USA
To the entire Burke Family, We were greatly saddened to read about your precious Brendan's death today. Our deepest, heartfelt thoughts go out to you at this very tragic and painful time. From reading the other notes from friends, it is obvious that Brendan was an outstanding human being and will be greatly missed by all. May time heal the intense pain you are now feeling and allow you to keep your favorite memories of your beautiful Brendan. Jeff and Ingrid Polkinghorne

2/7/2010 Ed Harris
Springboro, Oh, USA
I did not know him. But from what I read about him on the Miami websites, I would have been proud to call him my friend. Miami will win the National Championship this year and your son will be the reason why.

2/7/2010 Patrick Barker
New York, NY, USA
Words can not express the sorrow I feel. I have not cried this much since my own parents died. I hope you find some comfort in the fact you and your son touched so many. God bless, he's sleeping with the angels now. xoxopatrick nyc

2/8/2010 OLLIE PAADIMEISTER
Mississauga, On, Canada
My deepest condolances to the Burke Family Ollie Paadimeister & Family

2/8/2010 Pete, Marilyn Demers
Los Angeles, CA,
Burkie, Our sincerest thoughts and prayers are with you and your family at this,the saddest of times. May all your happy memories of Brendan give you some comfort. Pete and Marilyn Demers

2/8/2010 Bill and Marilyn Mahoney
Cole Harbour, Nova Scotia, Canada
Brian and family....sorry for your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you at what must be a terribly difficult time.

2/8/2010 Greg Windsor
Toronto, Ontario, Canada
After intently following Brendan's story in the Toronto news this past November, I was totally shocked and devastated by his untimely passing last Friday. Although I had never met Brendan, I was touched by his tremendous strength and courage. Brendan Burke was my hockey hero ! My sincere condolences to Brendan's entire family.

2/8/2010 Paul Guidoboni
Boston, MA, USA
Kerry, i am so sorry for your loss. I will keep you in my prayers. Paul Guidoboni

2/8/2010 Steven Schlafman
Boston, MA, USA
Katie - My thoughts and prayers are with your family.

2/8/2010 Dave Kelly
syracuse, new york, usa
Shaft: my heart breaks for you. Kel.

2/8/2010 Matt Santangtelo
Boston, MA, USA
Dear Kerry: Please accept my condolances. I pray that God will give you strength to carry you and your family through this sorrow. With warmest regards, Matt

2/8/2010 Bernardine Strom
Shrewsbury, MA, USA
Dear Ed and Elaine, My heartfelt condolences are with you at this extraordinarily difficult time. With love and sympathy, Bernardine

2/8/2010 Jean O'Brien Boback
Braintree, MA,
Dear Kerry, Molly and the entire Burke Family: Please accept my deepest sympathy for Brendan's tragic passing. My heart hurts for all of you. Words cannot suffice, but know that you are all constantly in my prayers. I pray that God gives you the strength to carry this heavy burden. With Love & Prayers, Jean O'Brien Boback

2/8/2010 Chie Sakuma
New York, New York, USA
Brian, I am so sorry for your tragic loss. My heart goes out to you and your family during this difficult time. - Chie Chie

2/8/2010 FRANK LAMPARELLI
CANTON, MASSACHUSETTS, USA
BRIAN, CANT IMAGINE LOSING A SON OR DAUGHTER. MISS YOU AT GOLDS GYM. HE WAS A GREAT KID AND PROUD OF HIS DAD. TRY TO KEEP YOUR HEAD CLEAR. KEEP YOUR FAMILY CLOSE. AGAIN I'M VERY SORRY. FRANK LAMPARELLI

2/8/2010 Dan Haskins
Andover, mn, USA
Brian & Family, Our thoughts and prayers are with you. We can not begin to imagine the pain of your loss. May God's peace be with you, and may He grant you and your family strength through this time. Dan Haskins

2/8/2010 mikey
minneapolis, mn, usa
I'm a gay High School hockey player, and Brendan is my hero. He has shown thousands of kids like me that we are not alone and that you can be gay and play hockey. It broke my heart that he quit playing hockey because he was gay, but it made him my hero that he got back in as a manager and was on his way to be the first out NHL executive. He was a brave, strong, good person, and even thought I never met him, I have lost my hero. Like Bobby Orr before him, he was also changing the game that he loved. My thoughts are with his family and friends.

2/8/2010 Marcel Lavoie
Verdun, Quebec, Canada
To all the Burke Family and Friends I would like to extend my most sincere condoleances for your great loss. May Brendan Rest In Peace.

2/8/2010 Marianne, Calvin, Colin and Julia VanBuskirk
Salmon Arm, British Columbia, Canada
We are devastated by the sad news of our cousin and nephew Brendan. Brendan was a young gentleman who accomplished so much more in his short life than many of us will accomplish in our entire lives. Those who knew Brendan are privileged and fortunate. We will never forget your smile, Brendan.

2/8/2010 Jennifer Perrault
Providence, RI,
Brian- Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. Jennie Perrault and the Office of Alumni Relations at Providence College.

2/8/2010 Matthew Foster
Burlington, Ontario, Canada
Brendan was and is an inspiration to all of us. He did much with his life and we will remember him for his courage and his desire for a better world. His life and memory will forever be a blessing to us all. Please accept my deepest condolences.

2/8/2010 Marcel Lavoie
Verdun, Quebec, Canada
To all the Burke Family and Friends I wish to extend my most sincere condoleances for your great loss. May Brendan Rest In Peace

2/8/2010 Katie and Matt Stajan
Toronto, Ont, Canada
Dear the Burke Family, Our deepest condolences to your family during this incredibly difficult time. Keeping you all in our hearts, thoughts and prayers. Hugs, Katie and Matt Stajan

2/8/2010 Nick Lupica
Williamsville, NY, United States
Brendan was a hero to many and a leader but he was a friend to me. Someone I cared about deeply and the fact that he was so inspirational and still so down to earth. He had a lot to brag about but he never did. Humility ran through his veins and I remember I did not know what his father did for about 2 months after knowing him and it wasn't a big deal. He was still Brendan. One of my favorite memories was the night we really bonded and became friends. It was 2nd semester freshman year and he let me sleep on his roommates bed because I needed a place to stay. We ended up staying awake just talking until 4 AM, I could barley talk by the end, but I still wanted to. I'm going to miss him so much. I remember when he told me he was gay. He said, "So you know I'm gay," I said, "Oh okay." And that was it. We both laughed and had a great night. I just hope he knows that he has touched my life and I'm proud and honored to have been apart of his. I love you Brendan.

2/8/2010 Jimmy
Edmonton, Alberta, Canada
Brendan, you are my hero. Simple as that. No more need be said...Peace to your family ~Jimmy

2/8/2010 Sister Zita Fleming CSJ
Brighton, MA, USA
To all who loved and cherished Brendan, my deepest sympathy and heartfelt prayers. As a Sister of St Joseph and friend of Sister Kay Gilmore we are deeply saddened by this tragic loss. Our prayers and thoughts embrace you all during this difficult time. Brendan's life story is one of courage, compassion and life-giving energy. It is evident that in his short life he accomplished much and inspired and touched many lives. I pray that this will bring some comfort to all of you. May your own deep faith and the love and support of family and friends console and strengthen you. Peace and blessings. Our hearts are aching with you. Sister Zita Fleming (Sisters of St Joseph).

2/8/2010 John Harding
Westwood, MA, USA
Brian--Please accept our heartfelt sympathy upon learning of your enormous loss. My family had the great pleasure of meeting Brendan when he was working at Pure Hockey; he helped my daughter with her first pair of hockey skates. We got to talking and quickly made the connection to when we had worked together ages ago at Palmer & Dodge. Brendan could not have been more enthusiastic about helping my daughter make the switch from figure skating to hockey, which she is still pursuing at Westwood High School. At that time, Brendan was also fully engaged in the college application process and discussed his interest in all things political and his goals for the future. It was so clear even from that one chance meeting how special Brendan was and what joy and pride he must have brought to your family. May God be with all of you at this very difficult time. John and Cathy Harding

2/8/2010 Mark Jones
, British Columbia, Canada
Brian and Family, The news of the loss of Brendan is deeply saddening. A young man whom had contributed so much to so many,and had courage well beyond his years. Courage that many with much more life experience don't have. The passing of Brendan is in it self a tragic reminder of how short life can be, and how sudden a loss can be. May you take comfort in the thought, that many friends and acquaintances of you, both close and from afar are with you and your family. I don't pretend to have known Brendan, but I want to say that the positive impact on my life indirectly, through his courage displayed publicly since Nov 2009 needs to be acknowledged. Thank you Brendan! Brendan has probably opened new doors and opportunities for many people facing challenges like he did, who are both inside and outside the Hockey world. His gentle openess and honesty should serve as an example for many in the years to come. God Bless Brendan Burke and his family. May Brendan's memory shine like a light for all.

2/8/2010 jim peplinski
calgary, ab, canada
It is not right but it is the way it is. hang in there. my most sincere condolences, jim peplinski

2/8/2010 Susan Schilling
Carmel, IN , USA
My son plays on the Miami Hockey team and I go to many games. I know the boys will miss Brendan, but the parents will also miss his bright smile and face around the hockey rink. Nothing I can say will make this easier, but know my heart is with you.

2/8/2010 Maria Pantages
Canton, MA,
To the Burke family, I am so sorry to hear of your sudden, unimagineable loss. I don't know you. Nor you me. But my son is a senior at Xaverian, and when I read this morning's letter to our community from Brother Dan, I just had to express my sympathy and prayers to you. Brendan is among the angels now. He lives on in eternity through all of you. What a remarkable, principled young man. A man of faith and character. A man of conviction. Of strength. Of courage. A man of truth. A man who knows the meaning of having the unconditional love of his family and friends. My thoughts and prayers are with you at this very difficult time. May our Lord wrap his arms around you and comfort you...as he welcomes Brendan home. Very sincerely, Maria Pantages

2/8/2010 Andrade Family
Toronto, , Canada
Our deepest sympathy to the Burke Family. May Brendan rest in eternal peace.

2/8/2010 Cathy White
Cincinnati, OH, USA
Please accept my deepend sympathy for the loss of your son, brother, friend. We don't know why the stars that shine the brightest often have a short lifetime but I'm sure his impact will be felt by many for a long time to come. My thoughts and prayers are with you.

2/8/2010 Tina Metcalf
Seattle, WA, USA
Burkie, my heart is just broken over your loss. My deepest sympathies to you and your family. If I could rush over and hug you all I would. Brendan was such a magnificent young man. May his strength, compassion, courage and kindness live on through all those who knew him and knew of him and his incredible life. The world will be a better place because he was here with us. I have no doubt his light will shine through you and others for many years to come. God Bless and may you find peace in your heart.

2/8/2010 Neil Mitchell Cowan
palm Springs , CA, USA
My heart is heavy at your loss. Even in this sunny desert it is cold with a grief so great that it amazes me. I didn't know Brendan or Mark but they are my brothers in spirit. I mourn.

2/8/2010 Chuck Hill
Ipswich, MA, USA
Brian and family, I was shocked and very disheartened to hear the news. It will likely take some time for this terrible news to get out to all of your fellow HBS Old Boys rugby teammates, but I am sure I speak for all when I say that everyone of us share in your loss. The Old Boys are like one big family and we will all be grieving with you in what is the most terrible kind of loss to bear. My deepest sympathies. Chuck Hill

2/8/2010 Lou Buffalino
Lido Beach, New York,
Brian, our deepest sympathies go out to you and the entire family and friends of Brendan. At a time like this, words fall short of any real comfort but please know that we are keeping you all in our prayers, that the Holy Spirit gives you the strength to get through this difficult time. Buff, Anna and the family

2/8/2010 Madeleine Cosentino
Toronto, Ontario, Canada
Dear Brian and the rest of the Burke family: Your son Brendan was a hero. His coming out story was so inspirational, and a huge step forward for equality. When I learned of his death I was heartbroken, though that is nothing compared to what you must be going through. I take comfort in the fact that Brendan knew you lov...ed him, and I hope you take comfort knowing that hockey fans everywhere are mourning Brendan's loss and showing support for you. May he Rest in Peace.

2/8/2010 Chris Lynch
Melrose, MA, United States
As a graduate of XBHS and a teacher at St. John's Prep, I'm sorry for the loss of a fellow Hawk brother. Please know that the XBSS community is praying for Brendan and his family.

2/8/2010 Jennifer Verhaeghe (Ringdal)
Athabasca, Alberta, Canada
Dear Brian and family, I am very sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you all at this time. With love, Jennifer (Ringdal) Verhaeghe.

2/8/2010 Irene Miller/PFLAG Toronto
Toronto, Ontario, Canada
Deepest sympathy to all Brendan's family. By living his life openly and fully, Brendan opened many doors for lgbtq youth, and the love and support shown to him by his family was inspiring. Sincerely, PFLAG Toronto, I. Miller

2/8/2010 john doherty
natick, ma, usa
Keri,He never gives us more than we can handle.Mine and my famillies prayers are with you and your familly.I am so sorry.Peace John

2/8/2010 C, M & T Anderson
Ashern, Manitoba, Canada
We cannot imagine the suffering you are going through, but know someone who does!! God be with you and may you draw near to Him at this time and always!! Like was said below...."The Lord is close to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit" - Psalm 34:18

2/8/2010 Alan A. Liston
Toronto, Ontario, Canada
The Burke Family-Brendan was the embodiment and personification of INTEGRITY,which is directly attributable to the values instilled by, and the unconditional love of,your Family! What an incredible legacy he unselfishly shared. Please accept my deepest condolences.

2/8/2010 Monica Keaffer
Canton, MA, USA
My deepest heartfelt condolences to you, Brian, and your family. My thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time... My son was one of the priviledged students at Xaverian to experience one of his many visits to the school to speak with them about being honest with yourself. He will be missed by many. I miss you at the Gold's Gym in Stoughton and hope I will have the opportunity to see you again.

2/8/2010 Jonathan Cardish
Denver , CO, USA
The world is a better place because of your beloved son Brendan. His strength and courage has helped many young people who have struggled with their differences. My thoughts and prayers are with you during this very trying time.

2/8/2010 Ray & Madeleine campeau
Cornwall , Ontatio, Canada
It is with heart felt sorrow that we heard of Brendan"s accident We had the pleasure of sitting in a box in Montreal during a Canucks vs CanadiEn game and we were very impress by this young man. My wife & I know what you are going through having lost a son at a very young age.May your love for your other children help carry you through these very difficult times. Our most sincere condolences to you and all your family. Ray. & Madeleine Campeau

2/8/2010 Martha Urbati
Hingham, MA,
Molly, I am so sorry for the loss of your brother Brendan. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. Martha Urbati

2/8/2010 Kevin McCaffrey
Toronto, Ontario, Canada
To the Burke family, Like some others posting condolences here, I did not know Brendan personally. I only wish I had. As a Miami alum, I have watched with interest and admiration since I heard his heartwarming story. The bravery, selflessness, and optimism Brendan showed at his age was incredible. I'm sure you realize that Brendan has helped & inspired many young people, inside and outside of hockey. Let Brendan's wonderful legacy be your inspiration.

2/8/2010 Joe Fiume
, Ontario , Canada
To the Burke family, I know that words cannot heal the emotional pain your family feels at the unexpected and sudden loss of your child and a brother. But take some comfort that many of us share your grief and you can take pride that in his own way Brendan contributed in trying to make our world a better place. He was a fine young man who was clearly guided by a strong family. Your family will be in my prayers. God Bless

2/8/2010 Chip Austin
Hampton, VA, USA
Brendan and your family shared your love, devotion, and strength with the world, and we bless you for it. I mourn Brendan's death, celebrate his life, and hold you all in my heart and in my prayers. Thank you for your witness to the depth and breadth of a family's love.

2/8/2010 Cynthia Jokinen
Greene, Mer, USA
Sorry for your loss;I am a complete stranger to yu all. I red the deth notioces. to seeif my hihhschool classmates have passed. That is when I rwead about your BVrnden. I hope his memories help to heal your hurt and pain.

2/9/2010 Michael Walsh
Weymouth, MA,
I send my deepest sympathies to the entire Burke family. As a Massachusetts resident (and BC High grad) who went to Miami, I felt as if I had a connection to Brendan, even though I never actually met him. When the ESPN article was published, it made me proud to be a part of the Miami University family and a fan of the hockey team that Brendan loved so much. He is truly an inspiration. Michael Walsh Miami class of 2006

2/9/2010 Andrew Rogers
Chicago, IL, 60640
I'm very sorry to hear of your loss. I feel connected in many ways, as I am an MSU grad, play hockey, am gay, and live in the Midwest. Beyond all of that, I am very close to my family as well. My sister had a terrible accident this summer, just before our family summer vacation, and she made it out of the accident with only a concussion. I wish you had been as fortunate as we were. Your son sounds like a remarkable young man, and all my thoughts and wishes go out to your entire family. Sincerest condolences. Andy

2/9/2010 Lorie Thomson
Toronto, Ontario, Canada
No words can ever truly take away the pain your family has at this sad time! Leaf Nation is thinking of your family in the days ahead. No parent should ever have to lose a child! Sincere condolences, Lorie Thomson

2/9/2010 Kip Lexner
Columbus, OH, 43201
I'd like to pass along my condolences to the Burke family and all those affected by the loss of Brendan. I remember the first night I met Brendan during Fraternity Rush at Miami University in 2007, we immediately hit it off as I invited him to join a few friends of mine to watch the NHL skills competition. Being a huge hockey fan myself, Brendan and I were able to keep up on the league like I was unable to do with any other. We'd skip class on Trade deadline day and he'd fill me in with the news I wasn't allowed to tell anyone he was getting from his father, and when summer came we'd keep in touch. I remember the nervousness during Anaheim's clinching game for the cup, and the pictures he was sending me from the locker room after. I have countless other great memories of Brendan and am grateful to have had a chance to know him and consider him a friend. The world lost an amazing individual with a amazing future ahead of him.

2/9/2010 Janis M Iddings
Foxboro, MA, USA
Please accept my deepest sympathies for your loss. I am the mother of a XBHS senior and had the honor of hearing your son speak last year to the young men at Xaverian. The world is certainly a better place because of Brendan, may his beautiful spirit rest peacefully in the arms of God until you see him again. My thoughts and prayers are with you all during this most difficult time.

2/9/2010 Sue, Daryl, Bryanna, Vanessa Johnson
Vancouver , BC, Cananda
Dear Brian, Jen, Katie, Patrick, Molly, Mairin, Fiona and Kerry, With Our Heartfelt Sympathy on your sudden loss of Brendan. . . Our thoughts and prayers are with you. We share our hearts, tears, our love and friendship always . . . Sue, Daryl, Bryanna and Vanessa Johnson

2/9/2010 Talawanda Hockey
Oxford , Ohio, USA
We will keep you in our thoughts and prayers during this tragic time in your lives. So sorry for your loss.Go Braves and Redhawks!

2/9/2010 Gary & Tammy Phillips
Highlands Ranch, Colorado, USA
We are saddended to hear the loss of your son Brendan. Our thoughts and prayers are with the entire Burke Family. Gary & Tammy Phillips

2/9/2010 Rammy Streit
New York, NY, USA
Brian and Jen, I am so sorry for your loss. Brendan was a wonderful young man and he will be greatly missed. My deepest condolences to you both and your entire family. With love, Rob and Rammy

2/9/2010 Dan MacDonald
Newport, Rhode Island,
Brian, My heartfelt condolences to you and your family. I happened across the story of Brendan online and was struck by his courage and your unwavering love and grit.My thoughts and prayers are with you.

2/9/2010 Marguerite Hamel Nardozzi
Milton, MA, USA
Dearest Kerry, Please know that your NDA "sisters of '75" are with you every step of the way, wishing to do anything we can for you, at anytime. Of course, my heart is broken for you at this saddest of times. I know each child is special in their own way, in ways only a mother can know and your Brendan seemed to shine especially bright. I am reminded of the proverb, "Just when the caterpillar thought the world was over, it became a butterfly." I cannot help but think of Brendan as an angel watching over you and those he loves, in a place more perfect than we can know. Remember to let us help you when you can...our prayers are with you and Katie, Jared, Patrick, Molly, your parents and all the rest of the family. With much love, Marg Hamel Nardozzi

2/9/2010 Doug Malek
Columbus, Ohio, USA
You embodied the true spirit of a Miami Man. Your legacy will thrive in your absence.

2/9/2010 Marc Crawford
Dallas, Tx, Usa
Over the past five days my thoughts and the thoughts of my wife and son have been dominated by Brendan's memory. Having watched him grow and seen, first hand, him mature into the beautiful person he became, is how I will remember him. Always polite, respectful and wise beyond his year. Brian and Kerry could not have done a better job in raising a son. My heart goes out to all of the Burke family as they grieve there loss. I pray that God brings them comfort.

2/9/2010 Mark Maidlow
Oak Park, IL, United States
My sincerest condolences to the Burke family. As a Miami Alumnus I was touched by Brendan's story, and proud that such fine young man was associated with my alma mater. You are in our prayers.

2/9/2010 Michael Brady
Halifax, Nova Scotia, Canada
in our prayers

2/9/2010 steven oneill
toronto, ontario, canada
I AM SENDING MY CONDOLENCES TOO YOUR FAMILY AT THIS TRAGIC TRAGIC TIME I DONT KNOW YOU BUT IT TOUCHED MY HEART TOO KNOW A YOUNG MAN LOST HIS LIFE SO SOON MAY GOD BLESS YOU AND YOUR FAMILY BRANDEN IS IN A SAFE PLACE GOD BLESS THE BURKE FAMILY YOUR IN MY PRAYERS

2/9/2010 Jim and Chris Cappadocia
Woodbridge, Ontario, Canada
We would like to express our condolences during this most difficult time. Our thoughts and prayers go out to the entire Burke family. May God give you the strength you need to get through this as the loss of a son cannot be put into words. The entire city of Toronto is behind you and will support you through thick and thin.

2/9/2010 mark provenzano
lockport, new york , america
to the burke family, thinking of you in this very difficult time.

2/9/2010 joan Lachance & Roland Lachance
arlington, MA, USA
We wish to extend our deepest sympathy to the Burke and Gilmore families on the passing of their beloved Brian. The death of one so young can be devastating to all who loved him. We hope and pray that the good Lord will comfort them in their sorrow and bring Brian to his heavenly home. May he rest in peace. God Bless & keep you, Joan (Downing) Lachance (BC'58) & Roland

2/9/2010 Karl Ablack
Victoria, British Columbia, Canada
Dear Brian, Jennifer, Katie, Patrick, Molly, Mairin, Fiona and Kerry, Since Friday our thoughts have revolved around Brendan and your entire family. Words cannot express our sorrow. Our hearts go out to you during this most difficult time. Karl Jennifer & Rachel Ablack

2/9/2010 Tony John
Brooklyn, NY, 11231
Dear Burke family, My deepest sympathy on the loss of your son Brendan. Thank you for the love and support you gave Brendan, which helped make him into the courageous and well-spoken young man that he was. Please know that you gave your son a great gift - acceptance. All gay children, no matter how loving their family, worry that their family will reject them when they find out. I know this because I am blessed with a wonderful family, but I was nevertheless terrified to tell them I am gay. When I finally did tell them, and they accepted me, a great weight was lifted off my shoulders. Your love and acceptance took that same weight off Brendan's shoulders. Letting Brendan know that you, the people he loved most, loved all that he was was a truly wonderful gift to him.

2/9/2010 Roger and Kathy Mitchell
Mansfield, MA, United States
To the Burke Family, It is with profound saddness upon hearing of Brendan's passing. Our thoughts and prayers are with you during this most difficlt time. We know your friends and family will give you your greatest support during this moment in time.

2/9/2010 Mike Foligno
Sudbury , Ontario, Canada
Dear Brian: Our heartfelt condolences to you and your family during this time of great loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you. May you take comfort in the memories of Brendan. Mike, Cara, Lisa, Marcus and Nick Foligno

2/9/2010 Stu Graff
Cincinnati, OH, United States
Love and Honor Brendan. A RedHawk forever.

2/9/2010 Sherry Proctor-Oonk
San Diego, CA, USA
The news of Brendan's death hit me really hard - and I only know of him thru Justin Bourne and John Buccigross's articles. What a courageous young man, and what an example the Burke family set in dealing with the news of Brendan's sexual orientation. Such a tragedy for all of these fine people to have to deal with - it breaks my heart. My sincerest condolences go out to Reedy family and the Burkes, and especially to Brian - I cannot imagine all that you will have to endure during the upcoming weeks and months. My thoughts and prayers are with you all.

2/9/2010 jenn
arlington, va,
i went to undergrad at ohio state and grad school at boston university. close friends of my family played hockey for miami (oh) about 4 decades ago. the 2009 frozen four championship game was one of the greatest sporting events i've ever witnessed - a miraculous win for bu, and a hard-fought loss by a very talented miami team. i was so inspired, and proud, when i first read the espn.com story a few months ago, and have tried to follow any more news since - and was (and am still) so looking forward to watching brendan's dad with team usa in vancouver! brendan had such an amazing path ahead of him, it would have been incredible to follow his career into the nhl. i am confident that the trail he began blazing so courageously will be continued. to the burke family, i hope you continue to smile when you think of how many people nationwide (and beyond) were so encouraged and inspired by brendan, even never having met him. hockey, and hockey fans, are better because of him. we will only move forward, and carry on in his honor.

2/9/2010 Anthony Macri
Woodbridge, ON, Canada
To Brian and the rest of the Burke family, my deepest condolences go out to you. Myself and the entire city of Toronto is sadden by this tragedy. Brenden's courage will never be forgotten. Stay strong Brian.

2/9/2010 Lacombe Family
Orléans, Ontario, Canada
To the Burke Family, Our thoughts are with you during these difficult times. May your fond memories of Brendan bring you comfort. Brendan's spirit will be with us always. Pierre, Diane, Alexandre & Elisabeth Lacombe

2/10/2010 The Boucher Family
Markham,, Ontario, Canada
To the Burke family: Please accept our deepest sympathy on the passing on of your beloved Brendan. Our prayers and thoughts are with you during this time of sadness and grief. There is nothing I can do, to make him come back There are no words I can say, that can replace his words you long to hear There are no answers I can give that will satisfy your questions, There is not another soul I can introduce to you, That will ever replace his And there is no love I can offer you That will ever replace the love you shared I cannot promise your broken heart Will ever be complete, I will not say that it could have been worse I will not deny that it was a tragedy I will not lie and tell you he will be back He never really left I do promise you he hears you when you speak I will say he loves you no matter what the distance I will not deny he is in a better place And will not lie he is waiting to greet you someday He is every step you take He is everything you do He is the air you breathe He is every beat of your heart He is like the wind, you cannot see him ... but you will always feel him

2/10/2010 Chris Wills
Calgary, Albeta, Canada
To the Burkes: Blessed as you have been by his presence, Brendan was so lucky to have you. Not all gay men find the same love and acceptance in their families. It was the values you instilled in him -honesty, integrity, courage- that made it not merely possible, but necessary to come out to you and to the world. Brendan could not live a compromise or a lie, and he serves as an example to other young men like himself. Brendan's life was too short, but it had meaning and purpose. May he live forever in your hearts. Love is all.

2/10/2010 Joe Palumbo
Frederick, MD, USA
Brendan was truly an inspiration to SO many people and his legacy will not soon be forgotten. My deepest condolences to Brian Burke, whose unconditional love the support for his son moved me to tears, and the entire Burke family over their loss.

2/10/2010 Becky Russo
Warrenton, Virginia, USA
Our deepest and most sincere sympathy are with the extended Burke family. we are heartbroken with you for your loss of an extraordinary young man. we were moved by his courage and the family's support last year, and are certain that he touched positively hundreds of thousands of lives, like ours. From a Miami family. Love and honor, The Bell Russo family

2/10/2010 Central Hockey League
Tempe, AZ, USA
To the Burke Family - On behalf of the entire Central Hockey League please accept our deepest sympathies. Our thoughts are with you during this difficult time.

2/10/2010 John Larkin
Warwick, Rhode Island, USA
Dear Brian, I graduated PC, in 1979. I knew you in your Senior year as I had transferred into PC in 1976. I received word on the sudden tragic death of your son, Brendan through Neil O'Hurley a classmate of mine. In fact I learned the day of Brendan's funeral. Please accept my most heartfelt sympathy on Brendan's passing. I'm sure the good Lord is watching over your son and welcoming him to his new home in heaven. Although you have lossed a son, you have gained an angel! Will keep Brendan and your family in our prayers. God Bless You All- John Larkin, PC '79

2/11/2010 Karen Weeks and Family
Cape Coral, FL, United States
Dear Brian, Kerry, and Family... My heart breaks for you with the loss of Brendan. It seems he had an extraordinary spirit, built from the best of both of you, and an important legacy that will not be forgotten. Thinking of you... The Weeks family

2/12/2010 Ryan Malone
Tampa, FL, USA
Brian and family, Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family during this difficult time. We are so sorry to hear of your loss. May you find strength and comfort from each other and those around you who care so deeply. Ryan Malone and family

2/12/2010 Bud and Donna Gouveia
Avon, CT, USA
Brian, Please accept our deepest sympathy. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

2/28/2010 Dave Balog
New York, NY, USA
I'm so sad, even weeks later, at Brendan's passing. What a courageous young man. Prayers to his family and friends.

3/25/2010 Cynthia Jokinen
Greene, Me, USA
I am sorry for the sudden death of your Brerndan. I am a mother and undstand the love a mom has for her childen. I am sorry. Cindy a stranger and mom who cares ansd wishes she could hug you all,

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